what you've heard about adhd and autism, and what's actually true
we are not seeing more neurodivergent people. we are finally seeing the ones we always missed.
6 min · 18 Sept 2026
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you bought it. nobody checked it reached the child. these are the notes from finding out why — short ones, honest ones, full arguments, and stories from people who get it.
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reality check honestly the armour doesn't fit
you can practise sitting in a pause. you cannot practise having a different personality.
7 Sept 2026
reality check planned is not the same as received
not "is the provision good" but "did it arrive".
7 min · 4 Sept 2026
reality check the number of us didn't change. the waiting did.
the 2026 government review found adhd and autism prevalence broadly stable, while the waiting list grew thirteen times over.
6 min · 31 Aug 2026
out loud i keep writing the same sentence
we measure the sending. we do not measure the landing.
6 min · 24 Aug 2026
reality check a letter to our fellow doodlers
for years someone told you that you weren't listening.
4 min · 17 Aug 2026
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nine questions, ten minutes, no email needed. it tells you where to look first in your own setting.